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“A champion is defined not by their wins, but by how they can recover when they fail.” -Serena Williams- Everyone experience failure. Everyone get sad. And that’s very n o r m a l . And this is how to deal with failure 101. He he . Accept and Learn From It Firstly, accept it. For me, acceptance is the hardest. But it’s the most important thing before you do anything. Accept your failure, know that you’re fail—and that alright. Just like what I said before, everyone experience it and that’s normal thing. It’s just a part of being human. I don’t know if this right analogy or not, but try to imagine your failure as a bad weather. See the failure as normal as you see the rain. Or maybe if it’s storm for you, remember that storm will pass too. That’s not the weather that matter, but how you react to it. If it’s rain outside, you can choose to dance in the rain or stay at your home making hot ginger. But you accept the reality that it’s raining and that’s okay—that

What is Altruism ? According to Cambridge Dictionary, the meaning of altruism is willingness to do things that bring advantages to others, even if it results in disadvantage for yourself. Another meaning : the attitude of caring about others and doing acts that help them although you do not get anything by doing those acts. The opposite word for altruism is egoism or self interest. There are so many activities that you can claim as example of altruism, like do charity, helping people, feed poor animals, et cetera. Well, I’m pretty sure that every people will feel like they are good person by helping others. They are altruistic people, who caring others and not expecting anything by doing that. But, the question is : Is Pure Altruism Possible? In evolution perspective (neo-darwinian modern), human is basically selfish. Some of psychologist also think that there’s no pure altruism. There are many people do something good because they believe that the universe will do t

Aku berdiri di atas tanah Yogyakarta. Salah satu wilayah geografis di Pulau Jawa, yang katanya istimewa. Tahun-tahun kedepan, aku akan membuktikan apakah memang benar Yogyakarta mampu membuat siapa saja jatuh cinta. Tapi yang jelas, tiba di Yogyakarta dengan segala kisah dibaliknya, membuatku bahagia. Kubisikkan pada diriku sendiri, terimakasih sudah sampai di titik ini. Setiap manusia meninggalkan jejak-jejak luar biasa hingga ia akhirnya tiba di titik dimana ia berdiri saat ini. Tercipta berbagai cerita dalam perjalanan menggapai cita-cita. Banyak yang perlu dikorbankan untuk sampai pada apa yang selalu disemogakan. Malam ini, aku ingin melakukan perjalanan ke masa lalu. Menyelami apa-apa saja yang sudah kulakukan hingga aku menjadi diriku yang sekarang. Melintasi waktu, aku melihat seorang perempuan dengan seragam putih abu-abu tengah berjalan sambil merapatkan jaketnya. Dunia masih sangat pagi, jam dinding bahkan belum menunjukkan pukul enam. Kedua kakinya tampak senang da

I just graduated from senior high school and now successfully being no-status-person who spent the time watching movies or series with bunch of snacks, sleeping all day long, scrolling social media,  waiting for any update from LTMPT, reading books, clean up the house, wash the dishes, et cetera. The certain thing that I feel after I graduated is loneliness . Loneliness is personal experience – it will feel different for all of us. People feel lonely for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes, a particular event or change in circumstances may trigger these feelings, or we may have felt lonely for a long time without really knowing why. For me, the loneliness that I felt is because I have lost contacts with my friends and a relationship has broken down. I don’t know if this is a reason too but I felt like this too-long-holiday really make me tired, I can’t do activities that I always done before like doing my home works, facing organization problems, studying for exams, catch-up the dea

Last night, suddenly a question just appeared in my head  " What's your biggest fear ?"  Everyone have a fear that live with them. Including me. Then, I tried to asked that question to some of my friends. Their answered are pretty same.  “I’m afraid of losing someone I love” “I’m afraid I’ll make my parents disappointed” “I’m afraid I can’t be useful for other”   “I’m afraid I’ll be abandoned. People who I love will leave me” “I’m afraid of death. Loneliness. Hell.”  Et cetera.  But, there are some people who just confused when I asked that questions, they can’t even  mentioned what’s their fearness. It’s sad truth. I think we should learn to know ourselves well. And several people answered that question interestingly,  A boy, said “I’m afraid of being forgotten. My passion in life, I want to live like Archiless. I want the world know that I ever live in this whole world. I often imagine, if I die and being nothing, will people ever know me?”  A girl sa