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“A champion is defined not by their wins, but by how they can recover when they fail.” -Serena Williams- Everyone experience failure. Everyone get sad. And that’s very n o r m a l . And this is how to deal with failure 101. He he . Accept and Learn From It Firstly, accept it. For me, acceptance is the hardest. But it’s the most important thing before you do anything. Accept your failure, know that you’re fail—and that alright. Just like what I said before, everyone experience it and that’s normal thing. It’s just a part of being human. I don’t know if this right analogy or not, but try to imagine your failure as a bad weather. See the failure as normal as you see the rain. Or maybe if it’s storm for you, remember that storm will pass too. That’s not the weather that matter, but how you react to it. If it’s rain outside, you can choose to dance in the rain or stay at your home making hot ginger. But you accept the reality that it’s raining and that’s okay—that

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What is Altruism ? According to Cambridge Dictionary, the meaning of altruism is willingness to do things that bring advantages to others, even if it results in disadvantage for yourself. Another meaning : the attitude of caring about others and doing acts that help them although you do not get anything by doing those acts. The opposite word for altruism is egoism or self interest. There are so many activities that you can claim as example of altruism, like do charity, helping people, feed poor animals, et cetera. Well, I’m pretty sure that every people will feel like they are good person by helping others. They are altruistic people, who caring others and not expecting anything by doing that. But, the question is : Is Pure Altruism Possible? In evolution perspective (neo-darwinian modern), human is basically selfish. Some of psychologist also think that there’s no pure altruism. There are many people do something good because they believe that the universe will do t